which loved the best

I think it means no matter what we say if our actions show that we love them they will always know. If our actions are pure and full of love then we would have no problem expressing our true love for a person. If our actions are not full of love then the person may not know we truely love them. Actions are the most important thing in our day to day lives and when we show how we feel in them it gives more meaning then when we don't show it in our actions. Just like the poems says our actions speak louder than our words can ever speak.